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Introduction
Who Are the Victims?
Who Are the Abusers?
For Teenagers
For Parents of Teens
What is Abuse?
Power & Control
Cycle of Violence
Treatment of Abusers
Protecting Yourself
Personal Safety Plan
Calling the Police
Protection Orders
DV and Children
DV and Chemical Dependancy
DV in Later Life
Barriers to Leaving
Religion and DV
Myths
Suggested Reading
Links
A Final Thought...
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Why You May Want to Call the Police  

They can protect you from immediate danger and help you and your children.

They can arrest the abuser without a warrant, when the police officer has good reason to believe that an assault has taken place or is taking place or that the abuser has violated a protection order.

They will advise you of Domestic Violence Services, including shelter programs.

They must write out a police report, which is a detailed account of what happened to you. A police report can be used to help prove the abuse occurred which may be helpful in a variety of court hearings including a Protection Order hearing. However, you do not need to have a police report to file for a protection order.

When the Police Arrive

Try to stay calm. Even though you are in a crisis situation, it's very important to stay as calm as you can. Keep in mind, the more information a person can effectively communicate to the police the more likely the response will be what the person needs.

Ask that a report be filed. Officers are required to file an official report for every domestic violence case they respond to, even if no other police action was taken.

Describe the incident in detail. No one knows what took place better than you. Do not be intimidated or frightened when the officers ask you for a statement--this is just a way of putting what happened in your own words. You will be asked to read what the officer has written to make sure it's correct. The police will not know what happened at the incident unless you tell them.

Show the police any injuries, bruises or damaged property. This is evidence! Visible proof provides more facts the police will take into consideration. If there is no physical proof (for instance, you were being threatened or experienced pain), simply explain, clearly, what happened.

Have the police photograph any injuries or damaged property. Also, keep in mind that many injuries, such as bruising, do not show for several days and may also worsen over time. Be sure and have the contact number of the police department and request that follow up photographs be taken. Your medical provider may also be able to take photographs.

Tell the officers if there were any witnesses. They help validate the fact that something has taken place.

Tell the officers about other violent incidents. Past abuse is part of an abusive pattern. Previous assaults help explain the danger involved in your situation.

Show the officers any court documents you have, such as a Protection Order. In particular, keep a certified copy of a No Contact Order, a Restraining Order or Protection Order with you at all times.

Ask the officers for their business card, case number of the report and a phone number. Call the officers with any concerns or questions while the incident is being investigated.

 

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